May 01, 2004

Virginia is for Haters

For the "just when you think it can't get any worse, it does" department: The Virignia Legislature passed sweeping new legislation that would not simply ban gay marriages, but it would also ban contracts made between same sex couples. The Orwellian-sounding "Marriage Affirmation Act" would void such contractual agreements like, advance medical directives or power or attorney, custodial rights, estate planning and wills and it would also void domestic partner benefits offered by companies.

To put it in the planiest language, hospitals could ignore a living will of a same sex partner. An adopted child of a gay couple could be torn away from the surviving parent and given to a relative or be made a ward of the state. Any will drawn up would become null and void.

This bill when enacted will do nothing to affirm hetro marriage, but everything to discriminate against gays. I don't see how people who call themselves Christian could do this. Furthermore this bill is far from conservative. We don't want a child with a gay parent, but its okay to make the child a ward of the state? We are willing for property to be given over to the state.

This stinks of how slaves were treated or how the Japanese-Americans were treated during WWII. It's make me wonder if I should consider moving to Canada.

For more info on this law, check out Equality Vriginia and Virginia Log Cabin Republicans.

Posted by Dennis at May 1, 2004 02:01 AM
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Posted by: Judy W at December 28, 2004 07:56 AM

Relationship problems - Letter to the Editor.

In 1998, President Bill Clinton was famously impeached for claiming that he had no “sexual relations” with Monica Lewinsky. Clinton defended himself, saying that his use of the words sexual “relations” and “relationship” was equivocal, but not false. What Clinton was judged upon was not his “relationship,” but upon the fact that he should have come clean earlier. He has since admitted his mistake.

In 2004, after going to war in Iraq, Bush realized that Saddam Hussein had no WMDs and was not a threat to the United States. In defense, Bush issued statements connecting the war in Iraq with something that he knew the American people wouldn’t question: Al Qaeda. President Bush claimed that there existed ties between Al Qaeda and Saddam Hussein. To the American people, on June 17th, 2004, George Bush claimed there existed a “relationship” between the two.

Technically, there were “contacts” shared by Saddam Hussein and Al Qaeda. There existed a “relationship.” But what is most disturbing is not whether the “relationship,” but how President Bush has used the word deceptively to ensure his own political survival. By using ambiguous and suggestive language time and time again, Bush has succeeded in convincing us, contrary to fact, that this “relationship” exists, just in time for the election. With one misleading word, Bush is able to frighten us and cover up his great mistake: that his reasons for going to war were simply wrong. Although both Presidents were proven false by non-partisan commissions, in the end only President Clinton was impeached. For Clinton, it was Kenneth Starr; for Bush, it was the independent 9/11 commission, which found this summer that if there were contacts between Al Qaeda and Hussein, there was definitely no “collaborative relationship."

For our collective dignity, I must ask, what is worse: equivocating about an affair, or the cover-up of a war that is costing thousands of lives and our future economic prosperity? I can never put my seal of approval on George Bush again after he has lied to my face. I cannot forgive this president for looking into the camera and telling me that there is a “relationship” between Saddam Hussein and Al Qaeda to justify his mistake and get my vote. It takes a strong leader and a stronger man to admit that he has made a mistake. This year, Bush has shown me he is neither. As an independent, I must choose this election not between Democrat and Republican, but between proven deception and a chance for redemption.

My last question to the American people is: what is our “relationship” with the one individual we choose for President of the United States every four years. Should we expect honesty? Should we demand it? I say yes, at a minimum. If somebody you trust lies to you repeatedly, they aren’t right for you. On Nov. 2nd, I am voting this year to begin and end the impeachment of George W Bush the only way as a citizen I know how: with my vote.

-Henry M Rich
Hopewell, NJ

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Posted by: Amanda Joy at October 28, 2004 07:29 AM

This law would completely undermine the rights of gay and lesbian citizens of Virginia to enter into private contracts with one another. It states that contracts (including private contracts) between people of the same gender are null and void in Virginia if the contract bestows any of the same benefits that a marriage would.

A national boycott has been called to counter such blatant anti-gay discrimination. The boycott is against Virginia and Virginia-based companies. J. Crew, headquartered in Virginia, is being targeted along with other companies.

The boycott is here:
Virginia Is For Haters
http://www.virginiaisforhaters.org


Posted by: David at May 12, 2004 04:37 PM

Dennis,

I would like to make two comments about your post, without actually discussing my opinion of the law in Virginia (after all, I might run for office one day). By the way, props for the title of this post: very funny.

The first is that you say you "don't see how people who call themselves Christian could do this." I think you might be confusing Christianity with the theory of "I'm ok, you're ok." You probably won't find that thought in many churches in Virginia. Unfortunately, you're more likely to find "I'm ok, everyone else isn't," which also is not the message of Christianity (which is that nobody is ok, except Christ). But expecting people to agree with (or even tolerate) your social view because they are "Christian" is a little naive. My guess is that the lawmakers and their "Christian" constituents are asking the same question about those involved in homosexual relationships: How can people who call themselves Christian do this? Whatever your belief about homosexuality in the context of Christianity there is no escaping the fact that Christianity is a religion of absolutes. Jesus said "Be perfect" and "I am the only way to heaven." So those who believe absolutely that homosexuality is a sin, and that marriage is between a man and a woman are likely to act in that manner, using the legislature as a way to insure that the beliefs of the "majority" are preserved in law.

Secondly, this law is hardly comparable to the ownership of slaves or even keeping Japanese people in confinement. While it might take away some of the priveleges that heterosexual married couples enjoy, there is not a move to forcefully take away the personal liberties of gay Virginians. This particular law doesn't make it illegal to be gay, just to have a formal marriage acknowledged by the state. Certainly, for those same-sex couples in Virginia who want to get married, this law would be hard to swallow, but I am fairly confident that the light of history will show that it doesn't compare to the evils of slavery.

Ultimately this law is not so much an attempt to legislate morality as it is to impose the political will of people who believe in moral absolutes.

Posted by: levy at May 4, 2004 10:22 AM
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